Saturday, January 26, 2008

MeiMei And Me


What a singular spirit is MeiMei! She is both beauty and clown, imminently patient with bumbling grownups, yet imperious about toys and snacks. In the last few weeks she has chosen walking as her favored means of locomotion, chasing cats, balls and the odd rolling grape. At 16 months she tries to dress and undress herself with whatever is handy -- JieJie's fanciest dress or dad's underwear. She has little patience for books, so we abridge the stories and do a lot of pointing at pictures. She is embracing TV, so we are using that perhaps too much to reinforce the sounds of English. She has fallen in love with Kipper the Dog, JieJie's first favorite, and will watch anything with music. Most of all, she loves animals. I can't wait to take her to the zoo. And as her foster mother wrote in answer to our questions, MeiMei's favorite animal is indeed the chicken and when she sees one she goes wild with excitement. She is quite the independent girl. We had planned on no introducing juice until later and then diluted with a lot of water, but she unearthed her first juice box from a low shelf, and presented it to me. I popped it and gave it back to her. She drained it in 15 minutes.
MeiMei can speak only a few words, and her babbling features only a few consonants, so we are seeking an evaluation by the Early Intervention program to see if she needs some speech therapy. She is, however, a great communicator. She points and waves, shakes her head yes and no with great vehemence, and makes perfect noisy, sloppy kisses. She has a mean throwing arm, especially with inappropriate objects.

MeiMei cemented her bond with mommy when we traveled to the Midwest for the holidays. Daddy came back to work and the ladies stayed on the road. By the time we got home, MeiMei was a mommy's girl.

Saturday, January 12, 2008

JieJie and the Tummy Lady



JieJie has been noticing pregnant women these days and possibly asking people with big tummies if they are pregnant. When she told me about her most recent discovery, that her music teacher is expecting, she made it clear that she found it hard to believe that she was ever a tiny baby in someone's tummy.

She has known for a while that I am not her tummy mommy, but rather her "take care of you forever" mommy, but it all seemed to come together for her last night after several very emotional days of playing "new baby" while she was home sick with a fever.

Last night she decided to write a letter. She dictated it to me.:

Dear Tummy Lady,

What is your name?

Then she took the paper and wrote on her own: I (heart) you, Clare, 4, then had me add "almost 5."

She decorated it with hearts and added a drawing of herself as a baby in a crib in the "baby house." I told her we would put it away in her box of China things and someday perhaps we could take it to China.

Friday, January 4, 2008

JieJie and MeiMei Resolve

...that in 2008 mommy will post more often
get camera, charger, batteries and cable all in one place
and buy a new, mod video camera that holds a charge, so we can be a multi-media blog.