Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Quote of the Day

Meimei:

"Mama, there's a shark in my cereal, and I'm gonna drink up that shark!"

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Dreams of Teeth

Jiejie has made great strides in the sleeping department. She did best while we were on a trip. The two girls shared a sofa bed in the living room of our hotel. When we got home they continued their progress, although Jiejie requested that she be allowed to fall asleep in our room and then be carried to her room. Whatever it takes. This week she lost a tooth, and the tooth fairy was able to leave her fairy-dusted dollars under Jiejie's pillow in Jiejie' room where Jiejie woke up and found it.

This morning, Jiejie lost another of her three loose teeth. It's sitting on my dresser. Tonight, she proclaimed she would sleep in Mom and Dad's bed. The question is: where will the tooth fairy land, if she does land?

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Sleepstakes

Meimei is sleeping in her own bed for the second night in a row. Her bed, I hasten to add, is parked in Mom and Dad's room.

Jiejie is sleeping in a big queen size bed tonight, alone except for Philbert the cat. With the door shut. She has only come to our room twice for hugs.

At stake are a dozen star shaped plastic trophies in a box from Oriental Trading Company. Meimei has two proudly displayed on her windowsill. Jiejie has some stickers for trying. By morning, Jiejie is determined to have a trophy too. She tried sleeping with Meimei in her toddler bed, but Meimei was adamant. For the first night, Jiejie stewed. By tonight, she had a plan. So far, with the digital clock about to strike 2 a.m., she's sticking with it.

And I? I feel cruel for manipulating them with 99-cent trophies and sibling rivalry. But brother TJ is coming home soon and we can't have three kids of mixed genders in this bed.

Co-sleeping seemed like the best thing for the girls when they came home as infants.  But no one has written the book about undoing co-sleeping. I can't imagine what it would be like to Ferberize a 7-year-old who has slept between Mom and Dad for 6 years, usually clinging to one or the other and nosing across the bed like a heat-seeking missile when a grown-up changes position. So for now, I guess we're going with the Oriental Trading Company incentive program.

Sunday, July 4, 2010

Happy Fourth!

The girls wanted to  see the local fireworks tonight, and so we did.  Fireworks are not Jiejie's favorite entertainment. Well, actually, she loves fireworks, but only  from a distance of several miles. The auditory effects are the problem. She knew the crump of the fireworks would be painfully loud, but tantalized by some fireworks seen from the highway, she was game to try. This year the fireworks display was at a stadium. A pretty elaborate exhibition for our small town. Before the lights went out, Jiejie had her hands over her ears and her head buried in my chest. Well, one side anyway. I cupped my hand over her other ear and she watched in contented silence. Meimei, on her other side, was concerned and stroked her older sisters arm several times and even helped me cover her sister's ear.  Tomorrow is the banging, booming, tooting, rum-tum-tumming local parade, just about half a mile's walk. I think we'll skip it.